Friday, December 26, 2025

Stella Soltowska, a fixture at Ray’s Candy Store since 1977, has died

Reporting by Stacie Joy
Photos from 2024 by Stacie Joy

Stella Soltowska, a regular presence at Ray's Candy Store on Avenue A for nearly 50 years, passed away over the holidays. She was 80. 

Sources say she suffered a heart attack at her home in Queens. 

Stella, a longtime friend of owner Ray Alvarez, had been with Ray's Candy Store since 1977.
This afternoon, the 24/7 Ray's was closed during what was traditionally Stella's shift. Updated: For the foreseeable future, the hours at Ray's will be 8 p.m. to 4 a.m.
We're told that Ray is in shock over Stella's passing. 
She will be missed by generations of East Village residents, past and present, and by all those who made Ray's a neighborhood favorite over the years.

On a personal note, I will miss Stella's sweet yet steely disposition — and the way she always tried to ply me with a soft serve or an egg cream. I'll miss how she took care of Ray, making sure his meds were in order and that he ate his dinner.

It's heartbreaking to know I won't see her on my endless trips by Ray's — waving through the to-go window or smiling from behind the counter, always with style and panache, her signature blue rinse and sweater sets firmly in place.

We'll share more information as it becomes available.

Photo of Ray and Stella in 1975 via Peter Brownscombe

17 comments:

Dave on 7th said...

What terrible news. Stella was as wonderful and beautiful a person as ever existed. I never passed up on a chance to stop by Ray’s to say hi to her. May she rest in peace.

JK said...

So very sad to hear of her passing. I am thankful for her time behind the counter at Ray's. My kids always seemed to get extra soft serve.

Shadowwhispers said...

Aw. Rest in peace Stella.

Vidal: Inside- Out said...

Sad news

Anonymous said...

😔🙏

genevieve said...

Condolences to her family and friends

Anonymous said...

She always had a smile for you, even just walking by and waving hello. A wonderful neighbor!!

Beneluxer said...

I've been blessed to have hours of conversation with my friends over the past few days, and it's been wonderful as (I think) the world is getting a lot less humane/interpersonal.

Maybe we could all make an effort in the future to forge connections with people that we have seen over the years and never asked their names or offered to grab them a cup of coffee or whatever...?

I am thinking of the laundry girls and bodega guys who I have seen for almost 20 years and never tried to connect with?

Older Historian said...

i will miss that smile, banter and quick wit. And nobody mixed an egg cream like Stella. God Bless her

Anonymous said...

This is so very sad. This will be very hard for Ray.

Annie said...

Sad news. Wish it wasn't so. RIP.

Sarah said...

Rest in peace, Stella, and condolences to her loved ones.

Daniel G said...

She was a remarkable woman. She had the softest heart behind that sometimes gruff exterior. She always remembered my name, and encouraged me to stay and chat. She took such good care of Ray. My heart breaks for Ray, for Maria, and for the neighborhood. What a loss.

Anonymous said...

I can't even begin to count the number of egg creams she prepared for me...a sad loss for the neighborhood

KJP said...

Same for me, but with Cherry Lime Rickeys <3

Daniel G said...

It’s true, her black and white was the best. But she said not to tell Ray that. Because he taught her how, after all.

Anonymous said...

so sad....we thought she was Ray's wife